Rules Of Engagement : Harvest Your Emotions

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Harvest Your Emotions 90:10 Rule (90% Logic.10% Emotion).. Emotions are the most disloyal thing you can ever have. Your emotions can easily be redirected by someones actions or something as simple as a heightened tone of voice . Emotions change by the second.. so, trying to sustain a specific emotion for someone or situation over a period of time, is pointless, draining, and overall impossible. It's best to operate under very little emotion and much more logic.. Master your emotions and then dismantle them.

Once you've managed to control your emotional triggers, you're now able to control the outcome of people and situations. To think clearly and to not be clouded by emotion, you're now able to calculate and steer your way through action(s) rather than meaningless emotions. Because you have control over your own, you will begin to learn how to shape, shift, pull, and push emotions out of others. Others that have yet to realize the power that is forfeitted by not having control over their emotions.

Harvest (gather) other peoples feelings/emotions and understand them. Understand their emotions and the result of them before they do. This comes with practice. Most emotions are the same no matter which vessel it spills from, the only thing that changes, is the reason. And a persons "reason" for why they are displaying their emotion is always subjective.. "You're crying over spilled milk". If you're the one that has control over your emotions and able to think logically and make decisions based off of that logic, you are in control. Say nothing.

My father always said "You let a motherfucker talk long enough, he's gonna tell on himself".. Until you fully understand your counterpart; how their emotions affect them, how unpredictable they become, how their rage or passion can affect their decision making.. let them speak. Let them spill out every bit of emotion. Every tear. Every snotty nose. Everything. And you, you say nothing.

As they are doing this you are able to see what affects them directly, you see what makes them cry, you see what makes them happy, you learn how to make them suppress their own emotions by avoiding trigger words or topics, you understand their body language, you now know how to use their emotions. You now have the power. You can control this person with the slightest effort.

Example: If you noticed while your girlfriend/boyfriend/situation was spilling out their guts while you stayed silent and they got upset because you weren't responding to it, you now know, that if you ignore them they will become uncomfortable and irate. They will do anything just to get a reaction out of you. Ultimately driving themselves crazy. To the point, where they forfeit everything they have just to get you to break silence. They humble themselves. They begin to apologize for the things they may have said or done out of anger just because they were looking for a reaction.

Now.. you must also take advantage of these moments because, those things he/she may have said or done out of anger is how he/she really feels about you. It is important to archive that information (this can be useful later on).

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Rules Of Engagement R.O.E are a set of internal rules that define the degree and/or manner in which the use of strategic thought and action(s) are applied. Rules Of Engagement must be consistent, while accounting for a variety of potential uncertainties. Each rule is singular and can stand on its own to achieve the result in which you desire.. or rules can be assembled and utilized simultaneously. Rules of Engagement does not dictate how a result is to be achieved, but will guide what measures are unacceptable.